New adventures & new love mediates grief

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

A native New Yorker, I enjoy funny, meaningful, cultural, and diversity in people, places, and things. I've lived on my Albin 43' Trawler for 20 years, but for last 4 years I've been a 1st Mate in search of a captain.We moved to Baltimore 7 years ago, but since my husband of 46 years died I truly am a fish out-of-water. My heart is in NY, but my psychotherapy practice is in Towson. My energy, sense of humor, positivity, and social justice feel out of place in Baltimore. I need a soulmate who is bright, funny, and enthusiastic about his full life.I am seeking a widower who had a very happy marriage and already knows how to love and be loved. We CAN be happy again, despite our grief/sadness. Let's celebrate life - OUR life. Please, if you are racist, anti-semitic, or voted Trump - don't waste my time. I am financially independent - and hopefully you are too.

Sign

Taurus

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

5' 5 (1.65 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Light Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

My Job Title Is

Clinical Social Worker

I Make This Much In A Year

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

I Live

Alone, With Pet(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Class Clown

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Theater, Travel, Cooking

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

I've Always Wanted To Try

Jet skiing.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy

My Religion Is

Jewish

I Attend Services

On Holidays

My Political Views Are

Democrat

My Goal In Life Is

At this point, I feel that I have achieved my goals: happy marriage; proud of my 3 children and 2 grandchildren; long and successful career. I did not expect to lose my honey by this point. My goals for now are to feel inner peace and to fall in love again with a remarkable resilient man that I deeply love and respect - and share it with a man who loves and adores me again.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin

When I Read, I Always Read

Philosophy, Poetry, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Every January 1, since 1998 I host a Chili, Chowder & Champagne Brunch aboard my boat to celebrate the new year. Everyone brings something that begins with a "C". So much fun. Playing some board games can be hysterical - especially playing Dirty Word Scrabble (where spelling does not count). I also love bareboating in the BVI's and all it has to offer.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Spontaneity, Oddities, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

I believe I have covered this. Basically a really kind person. He can be complex and needs to have a kind heart. He wants to have fun and not take things too seriously. Someone that I think is special - and he feels the same about me.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed