Don't act my age and don't want to.
arizonaboddy
Phoenix, Arizona | Mies Hae A Naista
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Bob
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Finding the correct mate is the most important action you do in life. It is a journey that can take you onto happiness or tragedy. I am a widower after 44 years of marriage. We had good and bad times. The marriage contact was clear, and I take it seriously “till death do us part” death we parted.
My approach in this journey is two pronged. Find my correct mate and-or help women find theirs. Due diligence is so important to find a life partner, most overlook it. My 44 years of marriage was work but is not work I regretted. There is nothing more enjoyable than helping others. Read below it is the approach I’m using; it will help you.
I have experimented with other dating apps. This one by far is the best because there are less relationship scams here. They care for your safety and will delete the fakes they know are there. Check out the safety page to find out what a relationship scam is. They attempt this scam on both men and women, many have been hurt. They also have many videos for help in your journey.
Google “love and respect principle” by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. If your divorced please don’t just assume you know what went wrong in your marriage. Have an open mind and you will find out what exactly what went wrong in your marriage and how to avoid it in the future. I have shared this with marriage counselors, divorced men-women, psychology professors, students in counseling and most are blown away by the truth.
Google “The five love languages” by Gary Chapman. This best-selling book will teach you what a love language is. All women have a primary and secondary language. They are words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch. You will know what your love language is and communicating it to your prospective partner will make his relationship you so much easier for him. I know because I’m not a mind reader. Or he may think he is not compatible with you. It’s a good thing to find out now than later. They only thing I would change in it would be when it refers to love language for men. It should be respect language for men. You should see why after understanding “love and respect principle” Most men have the “respect language” of #1 Words of affirmation #2 Physical Touch
The above is biblical, but you don’t have to be a Christian. The “love and respect principle” is not a new concept, quite ancient. I believe over the decades people forgot it. “The five love languages” is newer and came out of many years of research.
If you are a church goer, I would need to know your spiritual gift. It would say so much about you. It’s not a weird holy roller thing like speaking in tongues. You have “one” of 7. Gift of Prophesy (not predicting the future), Gift of Serving Others, Gift of Teaching, Gift of Encouraging, Gift of Mercy, Gift of Generosity and Gift of Leadership. Most don’t know what their spiritual gift is. I would enjoy more than anything to help you to know, no strings attached.
I believe in transparency. Not a holy roller bible thumper. I do have a high sex drive but will not let that take over like many and make wrong choices. There are many great women here on this app. I believe there should also be many men too. Let us both find the right one!
My approach in this journey is two pronged. Find my correct mate and-or help women find theirs. Due diligence is so important to find a life partner, most overlook it. My 44 years of marriage was work but is not work I regretted. There is nothing more enjoyable than helping others. Read below it is the approach I’m using; it will help you.
I have experimented with other dating apps. This one by far is the best because there are less relationship scams here. They care for your safety and will delete the fakes they know are there. Check out the safety page to find out what a relationship scam is. They attempt this scam on both men and women, many have been hurt. They also have many videos for help in your journey.
Google “love and respect principle” by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. If your divorced please don’t just assume you know what went wrong in your marriage. Have an open mind and you will find out what exactly what went wrong in your marriage and how to avoid it in the future. I have shared this with marriage counselors, divorced men-women, psychology professors, students in counseling and most are blown away by the truth.
Google “The five love languages” by Gary Chapman. This best-selling book will teach you what a love language is. All women have a primary and secondary language. They are words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch. You will know what your love language is and communicating it to your prospective partner will make his relationship you so much easier for him. I know because I’m not a mind reader. Or he may think he is not compatible with you. It’s a good thing to find out now than later. They only thing I would change in it would be when it refers to love language for men. It should be respect language for men. You should see why after understanding “love and respect principle” Most men have the “respect language” of #1 Words of affirmation #2 Physical Touch
The above is biblical, but you don’t have to be a Christian. The “love and respect principle” is not a new concept, quite ancient. I believe over the decades people forgot it. “The five love languages” is newer and came out of many years of research.
If you are a church goer, I would need to know your spiritual gift. It would say so much about you. It’s not a weird holy roller thing like speaking in tongues. You have “one” of 7. Gift of Prophesy (not predicting the future), Gift of Serving Others, Gift of Teaching, Gift of Encouraging, Gift of Mercy, Gift of Generosity and Gift of Leadership. Most don’t know what their spiritual gift is. I would enjoy more than anything to help you to know, no strings attached.
I believe in transparency. Not a holy roller bible thumper. I do have a high sex drive but will not let that take over like many and make wrong choices. There are many great women here on this app. I believe there should also be many men too. Let us both find the right one!
Kirjaudu
Kauris
Ulkonäkö ja Tilanne
Vartalonmallini on
Keskiverto
Pituuteni on
6' 1 (1.85 m)
Silmienvärini on
Sininen
Etninen taustani on
Valkoihoinen
Aviosäätyni on
Leski
Minulla on lapsia
Kyllä - Ei kotona
Haluan lapsia
Ei
Paras puoleni on
Silmät
Ulkonäkö
En edes harkitsisi
Hiukseni ovat
Harmaa
Minulla on yksi tai kaksi tällaista
Kissa, Lintu
Olen valmis muuttamaan
Ei
Tila
Koulutukseni taso on
Jonkin verran Lukiota
Työllisyys tilanteeni on
Yrittäjä
Erikoistun
Rakennus / Käsityö
Asun
Yksin
Kotona
Kaikki on rauhallista
Tupakoin
Ei
Juon
Ei
Persoonallisuus
Yläasteella olin
Matti Meikäläinen
Sosiaalinen käyttäytymiseni
Varautunut, Ujo, Sivustaseuraaja, Ystävällinen, Koominen, Flirttaileva, Aina menossa
Kiinnostuksen kohteet ja Harrastukseni ovat
Uskonto / Hengellisyys, Perhe, Ruokailla, Kuntoilu, Lukeminen, Oppiminen, Elokuvat, Internetti, Teatteri, Kokkaus, Puutarhanhoito, Kalastaminen / Metsästys, Korttipelit, Telttailu, Vapaaehtoistoiminta, Tietokoneet
Käsitykseni mukavasta ajanvietteestä on
Kotona oleskelu, Uusien asioiden kokeilu, Elokuvat, Tv, Konserttiin meneminen, Museossa käyminen
Unelma treffini olisivat
Any venue where my date will feel safe and secure
Olen aina halunnut kokeilla
Anything new
Kaverini kuvailevat minun olevan
Ystävällinen, suosittu, Hassu, Flirtti
Katsomukset
Uskontoni on
Kristitty
Käyn säännöllisesti
Kerran viikossa
Tavoitteeni elämässäni on
Live the rest of my live to the fullest. Helping others instead of doing everything for myself.
Minun tapainen huumori on
Ystävällinen, Hassu, Kermakakkukomedia
Maku
Televisiosta katson
Dokumentit, Tilannekomediat, Neuvoa antavat, Elokuvat, Tosi TV
Kun menen elokuviin, lähden katsomaan
Toiminta, Scifi, Dokumentti, Trilleri
Kun kuuntelen musiikkia, kuuntelen aina
Country musiikki, Rap musiikki, Rock musiikki, Metalli, Elektroninen, Blues musiikki, Jazz musiikki, Teollinen, Latina, New age musiikki, Kaiken kattava, Dance musiikki, Soul musiikki, Reggae musiikki, Folk musiikki, Punk musiikki
Kun luen, luen aina
Uutiset, Muinainen, Omaelämänkerta, Elämänkerta, Liiketoiminta, Tietokoneet, Historia, Koti & Puutarha, Filosofia, Poliittinen, Tiede, Romanssi
Käsitykseni hauskanpidosta on
Volunteering help at the homeless shelter. Helping others rather than myself
Etsii
Mikä sinua vetää puoleensa?
Nokkela, Flirttaileva, Spontaanisuus, Kummallisuus, Kaljuus, Herkkyys, Empatia, Huumori, Hyvä ulkonäkö, Ajattelevaisuus, Viisaus
Mitä etsit?
Have and open mind and the ability to change or modify opinions based on information.
Minkälaista suhdetta etsit?
Kaveri, Päivämäärä, Intiimi, Sitoutunut