Don't act my age and don't want to.
arizonaboddy
Phoenix, Arizona | Homme Cherchant Femme
Informations de base
Prénom
Bob
Je me décrirais comme
Finding the correct mate is the most important action you do in life. It is a journey that can take you onto happiness or tragedy. I am a widower after 44 years of marriage. We had good and bad times. The marriage contact was clear, and I take it seriously “till death do us part” death we parted.
My approach in this journey is two pronged. Find my correct mate and-or help women find theirs. Due diligence is so important to find a life partner, most overlook it. My 44 years of marriage was work but is not work I regretted. There is nothing more enjoyable than helping others. Read below it is the approach I’m using; it will help you.
I have experimented with other dating apps. This one by far is the best because there are less relationship scams here. They care for your safety and will delete the fakes they know are there. Check out the safety page to find out what a relationship scam is. They attempt this scam on both men and women, many have been hurt. They also have many videos for help in your journey.
Google “love and respect principle” by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. If your divorced please don’t just assume you know what went wrong in your marriage. Have an open mind and you will find out what exactly what went wrong in your marriage and how to avoid it in the future. I have shared this with marriage counselors, divorced men-women, psychology professors, students in counseling and most are blown away by the truth.
Google “The five love languages” by Gary Chapman. This best-selling book will teach you what a love language is. All women have a primary and secondary language. They are words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch. You will know what your love language is and communicating it to your prospective partner will make his relationship you so much easier for him. I know because I’m not a mind reader. Or he may think he is not compatible with you. It’s a good thing to find out now than later. They only thing I would change in it would be when it refers to love language for men. It should be respect language for men. You should see why after understanding “love and respect principle” Most men have the “respect language” of #1 Words of affirmation #2 Physical Touch
The above is biblical, but you don’t have to be a Christian. The “love and respect principle” is not a new concept, quite ancient. I believe over the decades people forgot it. “The five love languages” is newer and came out of many years of research.
If you are a church goer, I would need to know your spiritual gift. It would say so much about you. It’s not a weird holy roller thing like speaking in tongues. You have “one” of 7. Gift of Prophesy (not predicting the future), Gift of Serving Others, Gift of Teaching, Gift of Encouraging, Gift of Mercy, Gift of Generosity and Gift of Leadership. Most don’t know what their spiritual gift is. I would enjoy more than anything to help you to know, no strings attached.
I believe in transparency. Not a holy roller bible thumper. I do have a high sex drive but will not let that take over like many and make wrong choices. There are many great women here on this app. I believe there should also be many men too. Let us both find the right one!
My approach in this journey is two pronged. Find my correct mate and-or help women find theirs. Due diligence is so important to find a life partner, most overlook it. My 44 years of marriage was work but is not work I regretted. There is nothing more enjoyable than helping others. Read below it is the approach I’m using; it will help you.
I have experimented with other dating apps. This one by far is the best because there are less relationship scams here. They care for your safety and will delete the fakes they know are there. Check out the safety page to find out what a relationship scam is. They attempt this scam on both men and women, many have been hurt. They also have many videos for help in your journey.
Google “love and respect principle” by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. If your divorced please don’t just assume you know what went wrong in your marriage. Have an open mind and you will find out what exactly what went wrong in your marriage and how to avoid it in the future. I have shared this with marriage counselors, divorced men-women, psychology professors, students in counseling and most are blown away by the truth.
Google “The five love languages” by Gary Chapman. This best-selling book will teach you what a love language is. All women have a primary and secondary language. They are words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch. You will know what your love language is and communicating it to your prospective partner will make his relationship you so much easier for him. I know because I’m not a mind reader. Or he may think he is not compatible with you. It’s a good thing to find out now than later. They only thing I would change in it would be when it refers to love language for men. It should be respect language for men. You should see why after understanding “love and respect principle” Most men have the “respect language” of #1 Words of affirmation #2 Physical Touch
The above is biblical, but you don’t have to be a Christian. The “love and respect principle” is not a new concept, quite ancient. I believe over the decades people forgot it. “The five love languages” is newer and came out of many years of research.
If you are a church goer, I would need to know your spiritual gift. It would say so much about you. It’s not a weird holy roller thing like speaking in tongues. You have “one” of 7. Gift of Prophesy (not predicting the future), Gift of Serving Others, Gift of Teaching, Gift of Encouraging, Gift of Mercy, Gift of Generosity and Gift of Leadership. Most don’t know what their spiritual gift is. I would enjoy more than anything to help you to know, no strings attached.
I believe in transparency. Not a holy roller bible thumper. I do have a high sex drive but will not let that take over like many and make wrong choices. There are many great women here on this app. I believe there should also be many men too. Let us both find the right one!
Signe
Capricorne
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Normale
Ma taille est
6' 1 (1.85 m)
Mes yeux sont
Bleus
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Veuf/Veuve
J'ai des enfants
Oui - pas chez moi
Je veux des enfants
Non
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Yeux
Art Corporel
Même pas envisageable
Mes cheveux sont
Gris
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Chat, Oiseau
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Non
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Etudes secondaires incomplètes
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Auto-entrepreneur
Mon domaine de compétence est
Construction / Artisanat
Je vis
Seul/e
Chez moi
C'est plutôt calme
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Non
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Normal/e
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Réservé, Timide, Observateur, Sympa, Comique, Séducteur, Ouvert
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Religion/Spiritualité, Famille, Dîner , Faire de l'exercice, Lecture, Apprendre, Films, Internet, Théâtre, Cuisine, Jardinage, Pêche / Chasse, Jeux de cartes, Camper, Bénévolat, Ordinateurs
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Regarder un bon film, Télévision, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
Any venue where my date will feel safe and secure
J'ai toujours voulu essayer
Anything new
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, Cool, Neuneu, Un amour
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Chrétien
Je vais à la messe
Une fois par semaine
Mon but dans la vie c'est
Live the rest of my live to the fullest. Helping others instead of doing everything for myself.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Sympa, Neuneu, Bouffon
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Documentaires, Sitcoms, Programmes instructifs, Films, TV réalité
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Action, Science-fiction, Documentaires, Thrillers
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electro, Blues, Jazz, Indus, Latino, New age, Musique ambientale, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Actualités, Littérature ancienne, Autobiographies, Biographies, Monde des affaires, Ordinateurs, Histoire, Maison & jardin, Philosophie, Politique, Sciences, Romantiques
Mon idée du fun
Volunteering help at the homeless shelter. Helping others rather than myself
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Bon sens, Séduction, Spontanéité, Etrangeté, Audace, Sensibilité, Empathie, Humour, Beauté, Délicatesse, Intelligence
Que recherchez-vous?
Have and open mind and the ability to change or modify opinions based on information.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement