Don't act my age and don't want to.

Vorname

Bob

Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als

Finding the correct mate is the most important action you do in life. It is a journey that can take you onto happiness or tragedy. I am a widower after 44 years of marriage. We had good and bad times. The marriage contact was clear, and I take it seriously “till death do us part” death we parted.

My approach in this journey is two pronged. Find my correct mate and-or help women find theirs. Due diligence is so important to find a life partner, most overlook it. My 44 years of marriage was work but is not work I regretted. There is nothing more enjoyable than helping others. Read below it is the approach I’m using; it will help you.

I have experimented with other dating apps. This one by far is the best because there are less relationship scams here. They care for your safety and will delete the fakes they know are there. Check out the safety page to find out what a relationship scam is. They attempt this scam on both men and women, many have been hurt. They also have many videos for help in your journey.

Google “love and respect principle” by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. If your divorced please don’t just assume you know what went wrong in your marriage. Have an open mind and you will find out what exactly what went wrong in your marriage and how to avoid it in the future. I have shared this with marriage counselors, divorced men-women, psychology professors, students in counseling and most are blown away by the truth.

Google “The five love languages” by Gary Chapman. This best-selling book will teach you what a love language is. All women have a primary and secondary language. They are words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch. You will know what your love language is and communicating it to your prospective partner will make his relationship you so much easier for him. I know because I’m not a mind reader. Or he may think he is not compatible with you. It’s a good thing to find out now than later. They only thing I would change in it would be when it refers to love language for men. It should be respect language for men. You should see why after understanding “love and respect principle” Most men have the “respect language” of #1 Words of affirmation #2 Physical Touch

The above is biblical, but you don’t have to be a Christian. The “love and respect principle” is not a new concept, quite ancient. I believe over the decades people forgot it. “The five love languages” is newer and came out of many years of research.

If you are a church goer, I would need to know your spiritual gift. It would say so much about you. It’s not a weird holy roller thing like speaking in tongues. You have “one” of 7. Gift of Prophesy (not predicting the future), Gift of Serving Others, Gift of Teaching, Gift of Encouraging, Gift of Mercy, Gift of Generosity and Gift of Leadership. Most don’t know what their spiritual gift is. I would enjoy more than anything to help you to know, no strings attached.

I believe in transparency. Not a holy roller bible thumper. I do have a high sex drive but will not let that take over like many and make wrong choices. There are many great women here on this app. I believe there should also be many men too. Let us both find the right one!

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Steinbock

Mein Körpertyp ist

Durchschnittlich

Meine Größe ist

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Meine Augen sind

Blau

Meine Herkunft ist

Kaukasisch

Mein Familienstand ist

Verwitwet

Ich habe Kinder

Ja - nicht zuhause

Ich möchte Kinder

Nein

Meine beste Eigenschaft ist

Augen

Körperkunst

Würde nicht einmal daran denken

Mein Haar ist

Grau

Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere

Katze, Vogel

Bereit umzuziehen

Nein

Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist

Teilweise Hochschule

Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist

Selbstständig

Meine Spezialität ist

Bau / Handwerker

Ich lebe

Alleine

Zuhause

Alles ist ruhig

Ich bin Raucher

Nein

Ich trinke

Nein

In der Hauptschule war ich

Normalo

Mein soziales Verhalten ist

Reserviert, Schüchtern, Aufmerksam, Freundlich, Comedian, Flirtwillig, Offen

Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind

Religion/Spiritualität, Familie, Essen gehen, Trainieren, Lesen, Lernen, Filme, Internet, Theater, Kochen, Gartenarbeit, Fischen / Jagen, Karten spielen, Camping, Ehrenamtliche Arbeit, Computer

Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist

Daheim bleiben, Versuche neue Dinge, Filme, TV, In ein Konzert gehen, In ein Museum gehen

Ein ideales erstes Date wäre

Any venue where my date will feel safe and secure

Ich wollte immer schon versuchen

Anything new

Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als

Freundlich, Cool, Albern, Ein Flirt

Meine Religion ist

Christ

Ich besuche Gottesdienste

Einmal pro Woche

Mein Ziel im Leben ist

Live the rest of my live to the fullest. Helping others instead of doing everything for myself.

Mein Art Humor ist

Freundlich, Albern, Witzig

Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an

Dokumentationen, Situations-Komödien, Anleitungen, Filme, Reality-Shows

Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer

Action, Science Fiction, Dokumentation, Thriller

Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer

Country/Volksmusik/Schlager, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Lating, New Age, Stimmungsvoll, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk

Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer

Nachrichten, Historisch, Auto-Biografie, Biografie, Geschäft, Computer, Geschichte, Heim & Garten, Philosophie, Politisch, Wissenschaft, Romanze

Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist

Volunteering help at the homeless shelter. Helping others rather than myself

Was findest du attraktiv?

Esprit, Flirtwillig, Spontanität, Seltsamkeiten, Kühnheit, Sensibilität, Einfühlungsvermögen, Humor, Gutes Aussehen, Nachdenklich, Intelligenz

Wonach suchst du?

Have and open mind and the ability to change or modify opinions based on information.

Nach welcher Art Beziehung suchst du?

Freund, Date, Vertrauter, Verpflichtendes